…And they weren’t going to tell me.

I call my grandmother usually every day  from Skype or at least every few days.  I had been busy while I got renewed because all the running around I had to do and slacked a bit.  But she understood.

I talked to her maybe a week ago, possibly less, but time blurs here while I am teaching and stressing over open classes (another post). I found out she needed money so I sent it to her. (always do, what little I can every month.)

Well, I hadn’t been able to get a hold of her for maybe a week. No matter if I called really late my time or as I was going to work. Usually she answers.  I even tried her cell.  No answer. I had been trying to tell her I sent more money because I got paid.

I found out last night, I FINALLY got a hold of my mom ( living somewhere with sucky reception) Grandma was in the hospital (again) but needed a brain biopsy (something like that).  Mom told me Grandma had been having headaches and stuff lately (Grandma never mentioned these to me – “I’m doing fine, baby.”) and was in the hospital. She leaves that day.

I had little sleep that night (had open class the next day).

Called her on my way to work. She answered like nothing happened, but I guess from my voice she knew I had been worried and asked me if I knew where she had been.  From my tone I guess she could tell I was a bit mad.

LIVID now after open class stress is gone, happy she is okay.

Livid because, she asked me who told her.  I told her Mom did.

The other people in the family were not even going to mention it.

I wonder if they told my brother.  He is going to be LIVID.

This is like that time that Grandma had a stroke and they didn’t tell either one of us. My brother found out first, and thought I knew about it and called me pissed off asking why I didn’t tell him. Of course I told him to STFU, I just found out myself from you. We are both wonder why they think they should keep stuff like that from us.

I am 31 and he is 24. We were both pretty much raised by Grandma.  They need to tell us immediately what happens if something goes wrong.  If you can’t get both of us, one of us can get a hold of the other. We have ways.

..I will type more later in a different post.  I am getting more annoyed thinking about it. Plus, I need to get ready to leave work.




…Ya’ll are starting to piss me off


You have another package from your lawyers. It is in the office.  I told them that I will email you to pick it up. You should come quickly because I have no idea how long it has been there.  He just happened to see me walking home and tried to give it to me.

PTW – Previous Teachers Wife

Thanks for letting me know. I have no idea why or how another package was sent to you! Would you mind keeping it for us until we can figure something out?


No. My name is not on it. That is a legal document from your lawyer addressed only to you.  Specifically to you. No, I will not keep it nor pick it up. Come get it before they get rid of it in the office. Plus, you should contact your lawyers and give them your new address so this stops happening.


No need to get so testy, DN. I politely asked you for a favor. I don’t need your advice and I certainly don’t need your commands. The person who sent the package has my new address and failed to inform me they were sending anything, so it’s their mistake, not mine. There’s nothing I can do about it.

…… People that know me can imagine just what look crossed my face and what is to come. My best friend knows me and she started giggling while reading. Possibly the same look I got when PTW came to my place of work. My after school kids usually linger but that look crossed over my face in mid step, they left so quickly and quietly. Like they embodied the power of the Flash. That is another post and it will come up later.  It seems it needs to now. It is kinda long.  Sorry ya’ll.  Get a drink,  some popcorn and watch me work when people push my last nerve slightly.  I want comments too.

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Today’s agenda

Today was an easy day.

Doing some Korean foot soak that I got from the body shop. It is supposed to make your feet all smooth like baby feet. I am supposed to let them soak in e special solution for an hour then wash my feet again. Then of the next four to six days my feet will easily peel away the dead skin and then be smooth. I think I read it correctly. I am still working on my Korean so I got the gist of it.

Doing all this while detailing and deep conditioning my hair so I can do my new staple style that works well for me. Twists and all that take to long and this style takes about hour and has way less breakage. I can also be able to redo it after my workouts which is essential. Quick and easy because I have too much stuff I would like to do then sit on my butt all day messing with my hair, unless I really feel like it.

Doing a few loads of laundry too.

While watching a Supernatural marathon of season seven on T.V.

Update on the LASEK… I now have better than 20/20 vision so far and it has been only a month.

Kraft Maga – I found out from the Dr. that I can take the class and I could have started taking it two weeks after my surgery.

Update on my previous post… Met the last teacher and his wife and kid for a few minutes. I gave them their stuff and they gave me the extra keys to the house that they had and the electronic dictionary translator that belonged to the school in the first place. I think I may ask to get my locks changed. The guy is cute but he still gives me the impression of an asshole. His wife seems nice too and I now know whose hair I keep finding all over the place. Now that their stuff is out my apartment I finally am able to unpack and clean up the way I want to. I don’t know why I couldn’t in the beginning but I feel like the apartment is fully mine.

After I finish cleaning and putting away my things I will put a post of my new apartment. He said in the email the apartment was horrible but it is great in my eyes. I have three rooms, an office, a storage room and my bedroom that I have yet to sleep in because the bed is too big for my sheets and I want to clean up more. I swear they never swept under that bed at all there is such a layer of dust.

I also for no out that he had no control over the Kindy class and gave them candy all the time. They will find out from me that is not going to happen unless you get a certain amount of stickers for good behavior and participation. You get those then I will give you candy. He was surprised I had them in control in one class.

More updates later. I will be buying a new computer, desktop this time, to do my work and all that.

After that I will be concentrating on learning more Korean.

How is everyone?

– DN

…Did I come across clearly enough?

New Job = ^___^

Co Workers = ^___^

Location = ^___^

Students (that I have met so far) = ^____^ (little psychopaths. Cute and fun though.)

No Allergies = ^_________________________________^

Now for the   (side eye)

Emailed previous teacher and got 2 emails back, but I didn’t really read before replying back like normal.  I sat down and actually read it and just felt the ire stirring when I thought about it.  Here goes the 6th sense again.

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“Put it in your mouth!” + my experiences in Korea

I was pissed off Friday so after work, I packed up and went to Deagu.  I told my friends a week before that I was going down there anyway, but I came a day early.

I met My Korean friend M and his cousin. He usually brings another person along because he is not comfortable with his English and my Korean is not that good either.

I met his cousin (whom is gorgeous) and she is very nice. They took me to get dinner because I had not eaten dinner (that was how mad I was as I was leaving).  I guess it was obvious I was still hungry because he bought me another shrimp burger and some fries.  He reordered the fries because he noticed I do not like them cold.

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Here is what happened….

I was told this was better to write this down and get it out by my friend.

Some others wanted to know what happened and some said they are too scared to ask. <–This amused me a bit and I wonder why they were scared.

Is it really that rare for me too get mad?

My words must have conveyed just how pissed off  I was.

Here is what happened.

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